Reading Body Language

Then, HANG UP!!



Now, this may sound extreme, but man does it work well!!! In fact, she'll probably call back with five minutes and apologize and ask you out!!! I'm not kidding here; I've seen the hardest, jaded bitches go to giggly little girls, eager to please me when I've done this. It throws some kind of switch in their heads. I guess with some people, you don't really get their attention until... You Give Them A Swift Kick In The Ass!!



Scenario 2



You go to pick her up at her place and she either keeps you waiting outside for more than ten minutes, or lets you in and then proceeds to talk on the phone for at least that long while totally ignoring you. Wait for her to finish, and as soon as she does say something like this:



YOU: Can I ask you a question?



HER: Sure.



YOU: Are you being intentionally rude to test me, or are you just an accidental asshole?



HER: (mouth dropping open in shock, unable to say anything!)



YOU: Don't ever keep me waiting like this again, ok? I'll always treat you respectfully, but I expect the same. Do you understand me?



HER: Uh… uh… yes.



YOU: Good. Let's see you make it up to me.



And at this point grab her and kiss her passionately. If you can, try to turn this into a fuck then and there. Why give her an evening on the town and reward her rotten behavior?







If she doesn't return your phone-calls/e-mails







Things are looking grim if she doesn't seem to be returning a phone-call or an e-mail. But not all is lost yet as it all depends how you proceed from here.



One certain way to mess things up is calling / e-mailing her some more with the message being that although you are just slightly confused as to why she hasn't answered you yet, its ok anyway, lets try again, "here's my number one more time" etc. Bad. This is sure-fire method of losing her.



Another way to react is not to react at all — you sent your message, she received it, now it’s her turn to act, and if she doesn't, well, too bad. This method lets you keep your integrity and pride, but you could also be losing out on women who either can't seem to be able to make up their minds (but beware, they will definitely decide against you once they receive a supplicating follow-up message from you!) and/or are the kind of girls, that know to start "behaving" only after having received a few "slaps" from you.



So if hopes were high (you hit it off well, she gave you her number etc, any signals of possible interest you might have received from her will do) but now she seems to have disappeared — show that you WILL NOT TOLERATE such a behavior, and only because you saw some potential for the two of you are you WILLING to give her ONE LAST CHANCE. But if she dares to f_ck up again — its bye-bye- and blam!-door-slam-time:)



A sample e-mail/voice message by ||0_ProB, ASF: "Hi [girls name]. This is [my name]. I wanted to let you know how disappointed I was that you didn't call me back. But, since I saw so much potential for us I thought I would give you one last chance. So why don't you give me a call."



This approach also works if she does return your e-mails and phone-calls, but never seems to have time to actually get together with you. So if she always seems to have some prior engagements or projects or business or other BS to take care of and never time for you, here's an example of a simple and direct message by Maniac High (http://www.pickupguide.com), ASF:



"Hi xxx



So are you going to make time to meet me, or are you always busy? I am free Sunday afternoon btw."



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If she disrespects you







If she disrespects you







MrSex4uNYC, ASF: "At the first sign of disrespect to you OR passing up an opportunity to spend time with you, you dump her. When she calls you wanting to go out or something, you tell her that her behavior was unacceptable and that the only way you are going to let her hang out with you again is if she (make up whatever shit you want her to do because she broke the rules, fuck, suck, whatever). If all you want from her is a kiss, get that. If all you want is for her to dress sexily, make her do that. If she doesn't agree to your terms tell her don't call you again until you are ready to meet my demands and HANG UP. The point of returning fox is that she is crawling back to you so you have the POWER in the relationship."



from: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=1&mn=521199772

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